model Sojourner Morrell, photographer Pamela Hanson, stylist Leith Clark, hair Karin Bigler, makeup Kay Montano for UK Harper's Bazaar June 2013. source
It is a great privilege not to have to be anything and to simply be. Unfortunately, you have to already be everything to start with, in order to not have to be anything additional. You can't win, all you can do is pretend. Those who have it don't want it, those who want it cant have it. Once you get it, you won't care about it anymore. Once you loose it, you will want nothing else. Whatever "it" is, it's elusive.